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Morning Musings: November 1

Nov 1, 2024

I try to stay anonymous about my profession at my gym for a variety of reasons.  But, a friend at the gym who had lost 75 lbs. last year before the holidays asked me, upon learning about what I do […]

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Morning Musings: October 31

Oct 31, 2024

Hands down, the biggest mind game I ever played was telling myself that I don’t care.  That’s the one I use when none of my other excuses will hold water with me.  That is the final “to heck with it”.  […]

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Morning Musings: October 30

Oct 30, 2024

Halloween – a single evening holiday that can light the fuse and set the stage for the whole ensuing holiday season.  Virtually all of the special candy is just the same ole candy they sell everywhere all the time dressed […]

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Morning Musings: October 29

Oct 29, 2024

Self-recrimination is one of those convoluted methods I can also use to give myself permission to eat.  I already blew it.  I am already fat.  I have diabetes anyway.  I am so bad, why try?  Just another way my eating […]

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Morning Musings: October 28

Oct 28, 2024

I have to eat it to be polite.  Although I have done it a thousand times myself…no, actually I don’t.  And if I really didn’t like it, I wouldn’t eat it.  I have never seen a vegetarian eat a steak […]

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Morning Musings: October 27

Oct 27, 2024

Blaming is a great one because there is nothing I have to change about myself – it is someone else’s fault.  “My husband doesn’t like it when I don’t eat with him” (so eat with him, but eat something that […]

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Morning Musings: October 26

Oct 26, 2024

Then there are the passive excuses; the “devil made me do it” family of excuses.  “Then the pizza came in” one of my clients recently said to explain a particularly horrific food night.  “What, by itself?,”  I asked, obnoxiously.  Here […]

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Morning Musings: October 25

Oct 25, 2024

Did eating ever actually fix the thing I ate over?  Case in Point:  One of my clients told me a funny story about how she was having incredible problems with her computer one day, and in total frustration went down […]

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Morning Musings: October 24

Oct 24, 2024

One of the ways I called my bluff on the “I don’t have time” thing was to actually time certain things.  I kept hearing myself justify making instant oatmeal rather than eggs for breakfast because of the time thing.  While […]

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Morning Musings: October 23

Oct 23, 2024

I have noticed that I use certain excuses all the time.  Too tired and too stressed are very versatile excuses and conveniently fit almost anywhere.  Both have better fixes that are not food.  Interestingly enough, exercise (one of the things […]

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