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Morning Musings: May 11

May 11, 2024

It seems to me that once I accept that I am going to have to do (forever) some things that are hard for me, like exercise regularly or not eat all the donuts I want in general, then the only […]

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Morning Musings: May 10

May 10, 2024

If I chose to, I can teach myself to argue rationally back.  If I listen to my self talk, then I can see how I promise, excuse and rationalize myself right out of the things I need to do.  Although […]

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Morning Musings: May 9

May 9, 2024

When I have caved in to “no” lots of times, it’s like I have built a virtual mountain of the word “no” that I now have to climb over.   Every time I say no I fling one more “no” onto […]

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Morning Musings: May 8

May 8, 2024

It helps if I am honest with myself about why something is difficult for me.  If I can acknowledge to myself that the real issue with exercise for example is mostly  that I just don’t want to do it (not […]

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Morning Musings: May 7

May 7, 2024

It still so astounds me that I am able to live my life doing many of the things that I thought were utterly impossible for me.  Silly as it may sound, I am often choked up at the end of […]

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Morning Musings: May 6

May 6, 2024

The more I have practiced avoiding, not surprisingly, the better I have gotten at it.    When I practice saying no, “no” gets easier (which would be good if I were talking about not eating bagels at my office meeting).  When […]

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Morning Musings: May 5

May 5, 2024

It’s like that with lots of things; like playing the piano for instance.  I didn’t have to be born a natural Mozart to play the piano.  I would have to practice.  Weight management too.  I believe that I was born […]

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Morning Musings: May 4

May 4, 2024

It took me about 10 years of discussing exercising and of course buying all the equipment for the various sports I was going to ( in the future – not actually today of course) take up.  Eventually I was embarrassed […]

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Morning Musings: May 3

May 3, 2024

Strategy:  Hope for my best self, but plan for my worst self. Why:  If I have over protected myself, what have I lost?  But if I have under protected myself, then what have I lost?  Or gained, as the case […]

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Morning Musings: May 2

May 2, 2024

Strategy:  Always locate the Starbucks.  It is programmed into my GPS as we speak. Why:  My ritual afternoon coffee (cappuccino in Italy) has saved me from many the inappropriate afternoon snack, especially on vacation.  It has a predictable sister rule […]

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